In 2012, my marriage had been challenging for several years.
Post-Great-Recession, we were struggling with navigating career and financial choices, not to mention connecting and feeling "seen, safe, and soothed" (see Dr. Dan Siegel.)
Then, my (ex-)wife took a new opportunity overseas.
I felt abandoned, so I got a bunch of books on divorce from the library.
Imagine my surprise when, while reading Changing Hearts by Jill Burrett, I discovered I was putting too many expectations on the other person ... and on the relationship.
Since then, I've been doing my work and now I want to use the tools I've discovered and the lessons I've learned to help you live your bigger life as a coach-in-training.
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